When she was born, we purchased this sweet book for her called A Daughter Needs A Dad and she’s been addicted to it lately! She even recites some of the things they say why a daughter needs a father and it melts my heart. My husband and I are always talking about our roles as a father and mother and how important it is to raise her to be a confident, smart, and capable young lady.
Having them spend some 1-on-1 time together is so important for a trusting and strong relationship, but more importantly, I want my husband to set that bar HIGH on expectations of how a gentleman should treat her so she never settles for anything less than THE BEST for her. But of course, that’s waaayyy down the line, but having these fun all-out dates will also serve as reinforcements that Daddy is the only guy she needs in her life (until she’s 40 – haha!) ๐
When I told her she would be going on a special date with Daddy, I can’t even begin to tell you how excited she was! She was excited about dressing up and feeling like a princess, going to the restaurant, getting a fun balloon, and getting a gift for this special occasion.
(1) WHERE DID YOU TAKE MARLI ON YOUR DATE?
We went out for sushi – I had some rolls and she ordered the edamame and chicken udon noodle soup.
(2) ONE SPECIAL THING YOU GUYS DO TOGETHER
Every Thursday night, we go for ice cream at Paciugo’s Gelato or Amy’s Ice Cream followed by some grocery shopping for snacks. I always get her 1 red/green gummy worm while we stroll through the aisles. I also love taking her with me to walk our dogs because she gets to ride her scooter.
My weekly Thursday date nights and bedtime kisses.
(4) THREE THINGS YOU LOVE ABOUT HER
Her strong will, spunky energy level, and her intelligence
(5) HOW IS SHE LIKE YOU?
She’s stubborn and independent – all in a positive way
(6) THREE THINGS MARLI HAS TAUGHT YOU ABOUT FATHERHOOD
I have definitely learned to be more patient. Also, she is always watching us so setting a good example and leading by example is a must. And, I’ve learned to tie a killer ponytail.
I definitely want her to learn and have a strong relationship with God. I want to show her the value of hard work and not feel entitled to anything – you have to work for what you have. And I want her to be a strong and confident person.
(8) DESCRIBE HER IN FIVE WORDS OR LESS
Fearless with a Hearty Appetite – That girl can eat! (like her momma!)
(9) ONE TIP FOR NEW FATHERS WITH DAUGHTERS
Don’t be too proud to wear pink and play with dolls because it will happen. And there will be a lot of tea and/or princess parties.
Linda says
Love this. Absolutely love it. Agree a daughter needs her daddy, at every age. ๐
Heather says
This is the most adorable thing! I agree, it’s so important to have a positive, strong father!! She will be such a strong woman because of it! ๐
Shann says
I love this. It’s so awesome that your husband and daughter have a date every week. It also sounds like Valentine’s was extra special. She is adorable.
Nicole says
I love this so much! What an adorable idea.
Bethany says
Wow! I adore this post, your man is so sweet and obviously a awesome father ๐
Kerry says
Absolutely precious! A bond between daddy and daughter is so special. This warms my heart! A daughter needs her daddy at any age ๐
Irene says
The post is fantastic! I love it so much:)
Have a nice day!
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